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And, unlike the 23-year-old who gets tanked and throws shade at your ex, she’s got class. I once went out with a young man from Queens who only dated older women because younger ladies, he found, couldn’t do a thing without checking in with 15 of their friends.
In fact, your ex will likely friend her on FB (like my old bf’s ex-wife did). When you date a younger woman, he said, you also date all her friends, and it’s “a pain in the fucking ass.” You can’t just go out and do your own thing because she must receive approval from a larger governing body.
So if you’re only seeking women in the 21-29 age range, let me tell you, you’re missing out. And by that I mean: her own career, her own friends, her own apartment, her own money.
A 30-year-old man from Brooklyn told me these factors are what makes older women a turn on. If she hasn’t tried it herself, she’s likely considered it.
“I find it comforting to know that her life goes on when I’m not around,” he said. Plus, I’m talking about outside of the bedroom as well. etc.) But many are not.** She’s choosier, and, unlike the 26-year-olds who think they’ll drop dead if they’re not engaged by 27, married at 28, and prego before 30, she’s looking at life a little differently now.
(This is code for, “I dread clingy girls who abandon their own ships the moment we have sex, and set up camp on my shore.”) Also, the fact that an older woman has her own money means she likely worked hard to get it. You may buy into the idea that all older women are “desperate.” Granted, some are. This doesn’t mean she doesn’t want marriage/kids, because she might—but if so, she’ll be pretty clear about it up front.
I wouldn't think much of a couple aging 36 and 46, but a 21-year old (especially a guy... Regardless of even his opinion, I would not take his youth and time to grow away from him... I thought guys in their 20's were "immature" according to women ( I guess it''s different when SEX is involved) Most of those situations don't last cause when that 21year old sees a nice 18-22 year old walks by (especially if he's in college) it's curtains for the that older woman!
For others, it’s accidental: this guy simply missed the point when everyone else did ‘it’.
Girls aren’t used to men not wanting to sleep with them so he quickly gets a reputation of being ‘a bit weird’ or ‘gay’ and before he knows it, he’s scared of dating and sex. It’s so readily available and prolific, men no longer need to go out and pursue women to satisfy themselves sexually.
Why should they when they can stay at home and explore all their sexual fantasies online with no risk of rejection or ridicule?
Maybe he was shy or didn’t find it that easy to get a girlfriend until much later than everyone else.
Terrified he’ll embarrass himself, he avoids making any sexual advances at all.